Tips for Having Better SEX with your spouse:
If we could buy love, we would probably do it! Unfortunately, we’ve heard it for decades, “Can’t buy me love!” Celebrities have proven that the purchase of love is virtually impossible; and everyday people like us have had our share of relationship catastrophes as well! But do not fret, the purchase of love is not needed when you have “Better SEX” tips to add a spark to your sex life.
We are all very different; and with different backgrounds, spiritual beliefs and experiences, it’s often difficult to find the right connection or combination to unlock passion during intimacy. It may take a few years to find the right fit for better sex, however, I want to take a moment to address ONE piece of the great puzzle of intimacy: EROGENOUS ZONES.
Erogenous zones are parts of the body that have a concentration of sensory nerve endings that cause sexual arousal. Do you know your most sensitive erogenous zones? Better yet, do you know your spouses most sensitive zones?
There are 3 levels of Erogenous Zones:
Level THREE: Skin and nerve endings (touching, caressing, massaging, NO SPECIAL TRAINING NEEDED FOR THIS)
Level TWO: Foreplay areas. Back of knees, inner thighs, chest area, abdomen, neck, legs, mouth, tongue
Level ONE: Genital areas (direct stimulation…go here last!)
Tips for Better Sex:
1) STUDY the male and female erogenous zones
2) EXPLORE your spouse’s erogenous zones (become a student)
3) PRACTICE locating your partner’s most stimulating zones
One thing to do today: Choose one evening this week and commit to EXPLORE your spouse’s erogenous zones.
Jada Jackson, M.S., M.A., LMHC, NCC
Talk Show Host of Emotional Mojo
Author of Be-You-Tiful: The Threefold Process to Becoming You
Blogger and Author of Jada Jackson: My Story, My Life